When our old self starts to shed away…

As we grow and expand in our journey, there will come a time when we must start shedding pieces of ourselves. This isn’t just about changing surface habits, but diving deeper and letting go of identities, beliefs, and attachments that no longer serve us. It can be unsettling to realize that growth sometimes means outgrowing parts of our past. As we reflect on this, I’m reminded of the words of Jim Rohn: “Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.”

During this shedding, our attachments to people, things, and actions begin to shift. Relationships or pursuits that once felt vital may fade, opening space for new experiences and opportunities. This process of letting go can be both liberating and frightening, as it often feels like stepping out into empty, unfamiliar space. There’s a certain vulnerability in embracing uncertainty, but within those moments lies the potential for transformation.

The fear that arises at this stage can tempt us to retreat into what is comfortable and familiar. Yet, true growth occurs when we choose to lean into discomfort and move forward in spite of it. Progress tends to happen beyond the edge of our comfort zone, and letting go of the need for security can unlock new dimensions of ourselves.

Moving through this process requires courage and trust—not only in ourselves but in the path ahead. This is why it’s so valuable to find your community: a group that can support, encourage, and anchor you as you explore and grow. Personally, having such a community has allowed me to trust my journey, embrace challenges, and “fail forward” toward experiences I might never have imagined.